A Millennial's Perspective on Clubbing in a Youth-Obsessed City

The sophomore season of FX’s Adults has captured the attention of millennials, offering a refreshing alternative to shows like Friends.

Relatable Struggles with Age and Nightlife

Recently, I found myself pondering Season 2, Episode 2, where the character Billie mentors a 20-year-old with her old fake ID, leading to a reflection on whether she’s too old for the club herself. Despite being 25, the experience resonated with the feeling of encountering younger individuals at queer nightlife spots like Mood Ring in Brooklyn or Honey’s in Los Angeles, sparking an existential question about one’s place in the scene.

Finding Joy in Unexpected Places

As a 33-year-old, I’ve come to realize that my mother was correct – this decade is proving to be better than my 20s, particularly when it comes to enjoying nightlife. While Los Angeles’s youth obsession was once a source of frustration, I now find it less concerning.

Practical Tips for a Successful Night Out

Instead of feeling intimidated by younger patrons, I focus on their discomfort and desire for a better experience. The key, I’ve discovered, lies in two simple mantras: preparation and adjusted expectations. This includes strategic shoe choices – designer-collaboration Crocs from brands like Simone Rocha and Stella McCartney have become essential for comfortable dancing.